tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5005470146953673773.post1267013913061050059..comments2023-03-21T05:16:29.904-04:00Comments on Parents for Ethical Adoption Reform (PEAR): Crisis in AdoptionPEARhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01768583173126899015noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5005470146953673773.post-16425225740258964392010-04-17T00:55:57.924-04:002010-04-17T00:55:57.924-04:00There is no excuse whatsoever for anyone to view t...There is no excuse whatsoever for anyone to view this as a viable,moral, compassionate solution for a difficult adoption. Sending a traumatised child alone back to his home when help was available is the decision of a family who have decided to return a child they no longer want, like a pup to the pound.<br />The adoption industry is entirely responsible for inadequately preparing adopters, for not making sure they have realistic expectations and continue to have them and for not making sure they are the right people to raise a traumatised child with problems other than being taken from his country,culture and language.Expectations placed on these children are far to great, too weighty and too difficult.It is cruel, immoral and lacks compassion.If we find out a church group is behind this adoption and god has willed it there will be even more of a furore.<br />The buck stops here nowhere else.Vonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17421069895155350144noreply@blogger.com